Most women don't even know what the problem is, how their partners can help them, or if they even want things to change. Sometimes, it feels like "I'm just not a touchy person" or "maybe we are not intimately compatible". Women tell me all the time that:
Women pray their partner won't touch them so they won't have to say no...again. Or just do it, because they don't want them to be disappointed...again. Eventually, they just stop going to bed together, someone stays up to work or watch a show. This cycle is too much to handle every night.
If they do it tonight, they can relax for a few days. Or they do it, purely because they feel like they should or have to, or so their partner doesn't cheat. They often fake or exaggerate their enjoyment & push through discomfort.
It is like their body is pulling away & resisting touch as soon as they feel their partner. It hurts knowing how much they are hurting their partner by not being able to show them affection. They begin feeling like something must be wrong with them.
They bounce from idea to idea trying to find the answers yet slightly afraid to find them...
I know you are busy & have A LOT more to worry about than what goes on between your sheets. And I bet you feel like you could live without ever doing it again. But, that lingering feeling of emptiness, blah, & crave for more is leading you to what is possible for you. It is possible for you to:
…but experiencing these changes is only possible when you are willing to try some new things & have some new conversations.
Your experience must be professionally guided, take into account ALL the complex parts that are keeping you stuck, & help you to move this knowledge into your relationship.
You have spent enough time not knowing why this is happening or knowing what to do. You have had enough conversations that don't change anything.
It is time to make real progress, feel some relief, & enjoy effortless intimacy with your partner. All play. No Work.
That’s why I’m so excited to introduce you to my women's experience...
My name is Janelle Fraser, I am a relationship coach with nearly a decade of experience, sexual abuse survivor, a partner in an 11 year relationship, & a mom. Which basically means, I have had to personally implement every ounce of what I will teach you. I felt JUST like you & now...
I now only have enjoyable intimate experiences, I no longer question my relationship, I know what turns me on & how to get my needs met, I feel safe bringing any intimate conversation to my partner, we are continually trying new things for our relationship...we are LOVERS!
"I no longer think that I am a "broken" woman. I hadn't been prioritizing my needs because I didn't know what my needs were. Prior to Janelle's coaching, I only knew about one type of intimacy (sex) and that was very limiting and anxiety-inducing. Janelle taught me that intimacy isn't just sex & introduced me to a range of options. Janelle taught me how to:
"Prior to finding Janelle, I felt a lot of shame. I didn't have a very high libido, I found it difficult to get over past sexual trauma, & and I just didn't find sex appealing. For the last two year, I had been looking for a teacher who would understand me. I found Janelle (in March 2020). She embodies an amazing duality: she shares her personal story so you don’t feel alone but is objective enough to coach you through your specific situation."
"I told myself that I was "broken" because I didn't have any "real" problem in my relationship. I was hard on myself for not being happy with what I had & for wanting more.
However, as soon as I got rid of my internalized stigma that younger individuals and newer relationships had to be sex-driven, couldn't be struggling, & need work. I was able to apply Janelle's advice to my young relationship. Everything changed!"
and how to establish an exciting playing ground within it, whether that be sexual or not, and no matter how "dead" the relationship might seem."
YOU DON'T NEED THEM. This journey is just for you. If you desire to bring change into your relationship, you can complete the lesson on that in the course. There are direct ways & subtle ways to infuse the change you desire.
This is a self study experience which means you can fit it in your schedule & go at your own pace. YOU OWN PACE is essential to the changes you want to experience. All lessons are broken up into short videos that are quick to watch. In total, the experience is about 4 hours depending on how much you pause to write & respond to my questions.
This work would be extremely complimentary to therapy or private coaching. You will get tools that you would not get in therapy.
You might need extra support from a coach or another professional if there is a history of abuse, serious depression or anxiety, mental illness, or if your are personally really struggling outside of your relationship.
Even with these factors, this work would be extremely helpful but it might just be incomplete for some of your presenting issues.
Although intimacy is the focus, communication is a CORE focus. You can expect to notice other positive changes as well. I do have other options if you want more after this experience!
May 12-16th, 2020 is the release week & daily lessons will be uploaded into the members area (you will receive an email with login details).
You will also get an invitation to watch the live recordings in a private fb group.
Your login and access information will be sent to the email address you provide.
If for whatever reason you don’t receive your welcome email please contact us at [email protected]
You will have access for at least a year or as long as the training lives!
If for whatever reason, the In The Mood Women's Experience wasn't the best money you have ever spent, request a refund within the first 14 days with your completed homework and get your investment back. To be clear, homework and the completion of the full experience are required for all refund requests.