Intimate Communication

Create A Deeply Satisfying Relationship

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We live in the same house but feel distant & disconnected

We love each other but feel annoyed, frustrated, & resentful

Life is good but we feel empty, bored, & like something is missing

We sleep in the same bed but don’t touch or have sex we truly enjoy

We talk everyday but a lot goes unsaid & I can’t seem to ask for what I need

We try to make things better but it ends in fights, tears, or avoidance

His Shit + Her Shit = Our Shit

Seriously though, this is why relationships are so messy! Each of you have your own unhealed baggage (aka: shit) that you brought into this relationship. Your childhood, past traumas, beliefs, personality, needs, & desires. This gets all mixed together to create what we hope will be a happily ever after...ultimately, this is the foundation of your current relationship & the root of the challenges you are experiencing (aka: our shit).

What Exactly Will We Be Doing?

If you are nervous about what you are signing up for, know this: couples generally OVER estimate how difficult it will be to make this change and severely UNDER estimate how painful it will be to stay where they are.

1. How To Get Your Needs Met (it's about time)

You are starving, I get it! You will get plenty of practice getting clear on your needs, asking for what you want, & will feel surprisingly safe doing so.

In relationships, most of us unknowingly shut down parts of ourselves to make our partners more comfortable or eliminate conflict. This work is about allowing your relationship to be a vessel for both of you to become more of who you want to be.

2. Meet Your Partner (maybe for the first time)

I know, you think you know your partner. But trust me, there is more!

  • Discover & practice showing love to your partner in a way that they will actually appreciate
  • The truth about what turns your partner on (& what doesn't) is finally revealed. No more mind-reading
  • Discover you and your partner's self sabotaging pattern patterns that pull you further apart so you can stop them from stealing your intimacy
  • Learn what is truly important to them & how it compares to what is important to you (this helps to reveal why we are motivated to spend time, money, energy on different things)
  • Get the unfiltered truth about how your partner might be struggling, what they need, desire, & how you can help each other

3. Communication & Conversation (this is where the magic happens)

You might be thinking, "we talk all the time". If we are honest, most of us have swallowed more conversations then you can count. There can be years of built of conversations, so much so that you don't even know where to start untangling the mess. I got you! 

  • Stop being nervous or scared to bring up difficult conversations. Learn to handle the vulnerability and emotions of your partner 
  • Begin to feel safe & have fun in the depths of important discussions
  • Stop feeling the need to protect your partners feelings, or not get the truth out because you are worried about offending them
  • Leave with massive relief knowing everything you want to talk about or say to your partner has either been said or is in the que for a later discussion 
  • Starting conversations or knowing what conversations you need to have is the hardest part, we will set you up for weeks to come

4. Create A Conscious Future Together (goodbye autopilot)

Most couples only seek growth together when they are in trouble & the rest of the time they are on autopilot. They might be working on their goals separately but rarely do that have a vision & structure to grow their love/ intimacy over time. 

  • Leave with 2 personalized date experiences on the calendar that you each carefully crafted for each other based off of your values, how you receive love, & what turns you on (you will know how to do this in the future for each other)
  • Life gets busy, our Intimacy Interruption system will ensure you both stay connected & know what to do on a weekly basis to keep moving forward
  • Get clear on what is important to you both when it comes to the future of your relationship. Not your life but your love! Align your relationship values so can make what is important to you both a priority. 
  • Leave with fun intimacy increasing exercises so when you are spending time together you are actually growing closer together 
  • You will both have a cheat sheet  to carry in your pocket or purse so knowing what steps you can take to improve the feeling of your relationship will never be more than an arms length away

"I feel relief. We never deal with our problems or talk about our relationship. Learning how "my shit" & "her shit" came together to form "our shit" helped me to understand the problems we were having. Our relationship will be much better as a result of this experience"

Jimmy
Married 17 Years

"We talked about things here that we have not talked about in our 17 years together. Our relationship was good before coming here but missing the connection that makes you excited to see your spouse. We learned the tools that helped us talk about our needs and wants in our day to day life as well as our sexual needs that we never talked about before. I feel my marriage will be full of excitement and what we all dream about. "

Judy
Married 17 Years

Choose Which Option Is Best

Scroll to the bottom for the 3-month payment plan options

ONLINE EXPERIENCE

$197

Pre-Order Discount ($397)

In the safety & comfort of your own home you will watch a series of short videos at your own pace. Each video ends with an exercise or task for you to work on. You can watch them quickly over a day or once a week for several weeks. You can also repeat them when you need a refresh.

 

Pre-Order NOW to receive the discount, program will be released by JUNE 2019

PRE-ORDER NOW

LIVE 2-DAY EXPERIENCE

$997

Per Couple

Small Group Workshop, the benefit of watching other couples navigate a challenge similar to yours is helpful

Personalized coaching & feedback to show you where to focus to get the maximum results

Accountability, Action, & therefore, results are higher because of all the time for exercises. 

Complete Online Experience Included (released June 2019)

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PRIVATE ACCOUNTABILITY COACHING

$2997

Private couples work starts at 5K. With the live experience, a reduced rate is possible (we simply need to do less work)

5 coaching sessions to quickly experience a shift & support with issues that come up after the event (live or virtual)

Can be used together, just him, or just her. Together we will determine how these are best used for max results

His & Her Tickets To 2-Day Live Experience 

Complete Online Experience Included (released June 2019)

I AM ALL IN

"We had lack of communication, sex, safety to communicate, & knowing what each other wanted. Learning about setting safe containers was the best part for me so I can make a safe place for my wife. I feel much better about my marriage and feel we are heading in the right direction. "

Chris
Married 13 Years

"Before this experience, my marriage was pretty good, we thought. We got along great for the most part and he even recently joined me in my business. Like most couples, something was missing, but what? The spark! We didn't realize that a lot of aspects of our marriage (and life) were just us "going through the motions". Since taking this course, we have discovered a new marriage. Using our "Love Languages" and "Eroctic Blueprint". We are so excited to implement the skills you have given to us."

Jamie
Married 13 Years

Frequently Asked Questions

There are lots of them but seriously, if you know you want a change don't let all these concerns sabotage you

Don't convince them, sell them! How do THEY want your relationship to improve? What are THEIR needs? Shine a light on how coming to this experience is going to help you give them that! 

We HAVE to know what is in it for US...we are selfish beings. Let him know what is in it for THEM and what it will do for them. 

In the live experience, there is no requirement to talk about what you are experiencing in the group setting. However, you might be surprised how comfortable it is for you to share. You will be asked to talk to your partner but not to the group. You can literally stay completely silent if that is what you wish.

This work would be extremely complimentary to therapy if that is what you choose. You might need extra support from me or another professional if there is a history of abuse, serious depression or anxiety, mental illness, or if your are personally really struggling outside of your relationship. Even with these factors, this work would be extremely helpful but it might just be incomplete for some of your presenting issues. Also, most of my clients say "I got more in a day with you than years of therapy"...so there is that!  

First of all, this is COACHING! So you can take a breath knowing you are not going to therapy. Nothing is wrong with you. You are not broken. You are just really brave & honest about what you need in a way that most people are not. We are not finding out what is WRONG with you, diagnosing anything, or blaming anyone for anything. You will not be talking about problems for hours on end or digging up old trauma. It is expected that you will actually have a lot of fun doing this work!

I do not believe there is a perfect order. It is very likely each of you have work to do (his shit + her shit = our shit). This program is going to serve you extremely well regardless if you have some personal changes you want to make. In fact, this work will allow you to accelerate your personal work. So yes, you can start here!

I get it! My partner naturally desires much more physical touch than I do. So a whole weekend talking when all you want is a better sex life sounds awful. Because of this, I infuse touch challenges into this experience as well as show ways to get your physical needs met. Sex is just a symptom of what is really going on in your relationship. Once you are able to communicate clearly we will discover what is really going on so you can deal with it. So YES, this is essential in helping your sex life. 

This is possible & it is my intention to help you learn to communicate in such a way that prevents "fights". Doing this live or with coaching is a way to help prevent this a bit more as I create A LOT of rules and structure so keep you on track & our of old wounds!  

Alright, this is the moment I am going to coach you (I hope I have your permission). 

1. Think of all the things you spend money on now, what do they add to your life? Do they truly make you feel the way you want to feel? or are you left longing for more? Most of us do temporary self care like our hair or nails or he goes snowmobiling, or we eat out and drink on the weekends, etc. We plan trips, live in fancy houses, and drive nice cars...but still feel this void. Redirecting money is possible & if this is important to you, you can make it happen. 

2. You likely cannot afford not to, what is having this relationship the way it is costing you? Your happiness? maybe your health? how it is impacting your kids (yes, they notice)? where are you heading (divorce)?

I am not here to convince you or sell you something you do not want or need. I am here to remind you that if you want it, make it happen!

3. Scroll to the bottom of the page for the 3 payment options! 

The purpose & foundation of these are all the same. Essentially, the online lets you do it in your home, without anyone else looking at your relationship. It also allows you to do it over several weeks (a little each week) if that is how you prefer to do this work.

The live experience is taught live in person. You are professionally guided, inspired into instant action, & have the option for personalized support. The biggest benefit of this is you guarantee you actually DO it.

The coaching option is for those couples who are so ready & committed to a shift in their relationship and want to ensure accountability to stay on course. In our sessions, we will build off of what you learned in the live experience & deal with any personal issues or couples challenges that were not able to get addressed in the 2-days together. 

The next live experience is schedule for June 1st-2nd, 2019. It will be hosted in Fredericton NB. The location will only be sent to the participants when it is confirmed. The hours are approximately 10am-6pm, with an hour break for lunch and several short breaks throughout the day. Lunch is not included, most couples will want to step away and get some time to themselves! (#lunchdate)

It is common for couples to get nervous before the live experience & to sabotage themselves. Make this experience a priority, book your time off, & commit to yourself. If an emergency happens, you are able to transfer your investment to another experience with us (ie: coaching) or a future event (however, there is no guarantee of this exact event in the future). The investment is not refundable. 

No, sorry. If you are only willing to invest in your relationship if your insurance will cover it...it might be worth your while to ask yourself why. It is a personal choice for me to not have my work covered through insurance. Clients use to only support themselves with a change to the level that their insurance company would pay for it. If we really want to change, we must be willing to put a little skin in the game... if ya know what I'm saying!

Is your relationship worth it?

Scroll to the bottom for the 3-month payment plan options

ONLINE EXPERIENCE

$197

Pre-Order Discount ($397)

In the safety & comfort of your own home you will watch a series of short videos at your own pace. Each video ends with an exercise or task for you to work on. You can watch them quickly over a day or once a week for several weeks. You can also repeat them when you need a refresh.

 

Pre-Order NOW to receive the discount, program will be released by JUNE 2019

PRE-ORDER NOW

LIVE 2-DAY EXPERIENCE

$997

Per Couple

Small Group Workshop, the benefit of watching other couples navigate a challenge similar to yours is helpful

Personalized coaching & feedback to show you where to focus to get the maximum results

Accountability, Action, & therefore, results are higher because of all the time for exercises. 

Complete Online Experience Included (released June 2019)

SIGN UP HERE

PRIVATE ACCOUNTABILITY COACHING

$2997

Private couples work starts at 5K. With the live experience, a reduced rate is possible (we simply need to do less work)

5 coaching sessions to quickly experience a shift & support with issues that come up after the event (live or virtual)

Can be used together, just him, or just her. Together we will determine how these are best used for max results

His & Her Tickets To 2-Day Live Experience 

Complete Online Experience Included (released June 2019)

I AM ALL IN

I've Got You

You have nothing to lose. I personally guarantee that if you do the experience fully, there is no way your relationship can not improve. If you are really struggling to make this decision & have a few specific questions email us at [email protected]

Payment Plan Options

If you are in but wish to invest over 3 payments

ONLINE EXPERIENCE

$197

Pre-Order Discount ($397)

 

There is no payment plan option for the online experience

PRE-ORDER NOW

LIVE 2-DAY EXPERIENCE

$347

3 monthly payments of $347

Payment will come out monthly

SIGN UP HERE

PRIVATE ACCOUNTABILITY COACHING

$999

3 monthly payments of $999

Payment will come out monthly

I AM ALL IN
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